Ladies This Has To Stop!

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Jul 7, 2013

Karen S.

Hey dolls, so when I first got this app I was so in love with it but after a period of time I started noticing that some of these ladies are rude when stating an opinion or comment. Many think that its not a big deal but I don't think its okay? I mean its completely okay to state your opinion but its better to do it in a respectful manner. I have nothing against these girls/ladies but come on you guys, there's no need to be harsh on other people. This doesn't go to everyone, just some people in particular. I just think that we should be less harsh towards other people :) and I did not start this thread to bag on certain people! I did this because it really bugs me and I'm sure it bugs many of you too! well that's MY opinion :)

Jul 7, 2013

Jolie R.

Amen!

Jul 7, 2013

Hanna U.

I respect you. I know what it feels like to be disrespected like that!:(

Jul 7, 2013

Jessica L.

I have never had any experiences with rudeness :/

Jul 7, 2013

Alondra G.

True but some people just talk (or type) like that. somtimes without even any intentional rudeness.

Jul 7, 2013

Shemara S.

I agree with you I think the rudeness has to stop to

Jul 7, 2013

Karen S.

I agree Alondra, but I'm saying for the people that are rude intentionally.

Jul 7, 2013

Shemara S.

Yea true alondra is right it kinda does happens with some peop, e.

Jul 7, 2013

Alondra G.

Flag/report them. lol
true though. I don't think rudeness anywhere is ever going to stop though. sucks

Jul 7, 2013

Mary S.

Haters are stupid don't give a sh...:) our life is short have fun and don't care what other people say:)

Jul 7, 2013

Kris B.

People that make rid comments tend to be unhappy with them selves in some type of way... I'd wish them happiness and keep it movin...

Jul 7, 2013

Axita S.

I was called scary.. it felt bad :(

Jul 7, 2013

Kris B.

Rude... Damn auto correct 😁

Jul 7, 2013

Kris B.

It's better to uplift someone than to put them down... Treat others the way you want to be treated 😘

Jul 7, 2013

Alondra G.

agree with Mookey

Jul 7, 2013

Karen S.

Its okay for people to be HONEST but not disrespectful. that's what I'm trying to say gals, you don't have to be rude to state an opinion or comment.

Jul 7, 2013

Kris B.

I agree Karen

Jul 7, 2013

Clare C.

I think some people confuse honesty with cruelty. While its true that there is some cattiness here, if someone asks for opinions then they should be able to accept that they may not all be positive.

Jul 7, 2013

Maggie M.

This site didn't used to be such a sugar coated compliment fest. I personally give my honest opinions without doing so and it often is taken as "rude" simply because it isn't dripping with sugar. Not everyone has that attitude in life and part of being here is to be all inclusive..trust me when it's a truly rude comment it won't be there for long, that kind of behavior is not acceptable here.

Jul 7, 2013

Maggie M.

@clare. I concur.

Jul 7, 2013

Elaina P.

YES, there is a difference between being honest and putting someone down this needs to stop Mean Girls was a great movie bit just to make me laugh but I show these ladies how dumb and rude there are being and we need to stand up to them so remember be kind and in Wednesdays we wear pink :)

Jul 7, 2013

CorCor C.

I don't agree with rudeness but there are way too many people on here that are sensitive to honestly - it's your opinion! People take it the wrong way whatever way you put that you don't like it... And it's normally not actually the person that has put the post on its normally the other commenters. Honesty is allowed of we all liked the same thing life would be very dull!

Jul 7, 2013

CorCor C.

@maggie am I totally agree with your comment sometimes the sugar coatedness is just as ridiculous as the rudeness - but I mean tht if people are putting posts specifically asking on opinions.

Jul 7, 2013

Traci L.

If they ask your opinion then give it but offer some type of advice on how you would improve it just don't say shit for the sake of sayin it I really think people who don't no how to get there point across without coming off as assholes are pathetic an insecure thats why they live to put others down GET A LIFE.

Jul 7, 2013

Alma M.

Hello Beauties, this unfortunately is always an issue and then a thread like this comes along once or twice a month about the same subject.I think because this site now also a App more people are coming and joining BL but some don't realize that this site has been working hard to make it a great place for every one to enjoy, but some bad people slip through the cracks and I think it takes a village to make it right as cheesy as that sounds.That's why its stressed all the time that people flag and flag and flag it will be dealt with in a prompt manner but keep in mind we all don't think the same or have the same styles or looks but be prepared for some feed back but that being said I also think it should be said in a proper way with respect.I also think when it is said in a respectful way ,the other person asking advice should also give the same respect back.Now here's another issue people read certain things how they want, this is a world site of different people from every where and some things we may not all understand so why not say ok I could be reading into something wrong or ask I don't understand what do you mean? Ect I hope all of you get what I'm saying about that as some questions may be so called dumb or silly to some keep in mind this site is branched out everywhere.I truly hope you ladies give some thought to what I'm saying.Stay beautiful  ;-)