We Should Start Doing This Ladies.

Jun 10, 2013

Michelle D.

Totally! :)

Jun 10, 2013

Stephanie M.

Agreed!!

Jun 10, 2013

Ivonne B.

Happens to me all the time :/

Jun 10, 2013

rosemily d.

okay :)

Jun 10, 2013

Dana M.

I think you guys forget that not everyone sees the same posts and sometimes the questions are repetitive. I try to answer most questions though.

Jun 10, 2013

Rebekah L.

That happens to me too!! I agree! 😉

Jun 10, 2013

Ashley P.

That has happened to me several times. It Can kinda hurt a girls feelings! Especially when you are desperate for help or advice. I don't post things just because. Its because I truly need help or want to help. Just sayin...

Jun 10, 2013

Divya S.

Good thought grlz...lts do it :-)

Jun 10, 2013

Amaris A.

Dana (not to be mean) but I've seen a lot of your responses on post and you're always so negative. I was just saying answer the questions that have little to no responses. I didn't say answer ALL of the questions. that's re
ridiculous. anyway maybe you should start thinking more positive. its good to give criticism but not to the point were you hurt feelings. and I'm not just saying this cause of that ^ comment, I'm saying it cause I've seen a lot of your other comments. just be more positive girl<3

Jun 10, 2013

Rose M.

I could relate to this post! I've asked?s and I've gotten little to NO comments/answers/feedback!!

Jun 10, 2013

Kaitlyn S.

I agree with the comment thing =] I try to offer help to anyone as much as I can. I always feel bad though when I see a question with no answers and I can't answer because I'm not that knowledgeable about it

Jun 10, 2013

Liliana E.

Completely agree :)

Jun 10, 2013

Kaitlyn C.

Awh haha I got this app today and its pretty cool. I agree though. its always nice recieving and giving compliments.
xo kaitlyn

Jun 10, 2013

Jasmine W.

Agreed. I help as much as I can.

Jun 10, 2013

Dana M.

I am a positions person, I just keep it real. A lot of people expect a "omg cute!" when in reality, I don't see it that way. I'm not going to pretend to like something because it's "cool". If someone asks if you like their makeup and you say "yes" while I say "no" I'm assumed to be negative, when in reality, I just don't like your makeup and you asked for my opinion.

And I know what you are saying, my point is that someone on another thread made up a good point that depending on your phone, you see so much different threads (iphones and androids don't see the sane threads sometimes) so people don't feel like their threads aren't being looked at. Sometimes the questions come off as repetitive because they are seeing something that we aren't seeing. For example, there have been numerous threads on this exact topic - but you may not know that because we have different devices. Again, I'm not blaming anyone for this - except maybe, Beautylish. I'm just trying to give some girls some perspective as to why they think their posts are being ignored.

Jun 10, 2013

Roz X.

I like this idea better. How about everyone doing a search for general topics like info on waxing, self tanners, BB that we have all seen and answered in great detail and to the best of our abilities..repeatedly... before we make a thread? If a topic is not of interest or if I cannot be of assistance, then I don't feel the need to say "Oh, sorry". Additionally, everything is not "cute" and "perfect" and so sometimes I refrain from responding out of sheer kindness. 

Jun 10, 2013

Roz X.

Sometimes...lol

Jun 10, 2013

Amaris A.

Yes but Dana... all you say is no no no. how about you give advice or pointers after your "no". that's what positive is about. being positive isn't saying "omg cute" "yes" "gorgeous" all the time... being positive is giving your input on how someone can improve and pointing out a good quality that can benefit them. THAT's being positive..

Jun 10, 2013

Susan D.

:)

Jun 10, 2013

Melanie V.

There is a difference between raw criticism and constructive criticism. One breaks down and the other builds up. The thing to ask yourself is "It this response going to make someone's life better or worse?" Being dismissive and rude is worse than saying nothing. Tact is not a lost art.

Jun 10, 2013

Amaris A.

Preach it melanie!! lol I'm so with you on that.

Jun 10, 2013

Roz X.

So now we are expected to not only share our (what may be) unpopular opinion...but then explain our position and figure out how to make something we find repulsive or boring better? Absurd. People are drawn to what interests them and not everyone or everything is of equal interest to people. So I won't be on the pep squad for the unpopular threads when many questions asked have already been addressed or could be solved by walking down the hall and asking mom..if you're lucky enough to have one there for you. I still seek my mom's advice! Besides, as I have stated previously, sometimes my refrain is to spare feelings or it is a thread from a poster that I do not particular care for. That is honest and tactful in every possible manner. If you're topic was unanswered it may be because it's already been addressed, so do a search and seek the wealth of knowledge already here at Beautylish before you make a broad-based topic. 

Jun 10, 2013

Amaris A.

Not many girls on here even have a mom or any type of female person to look to for advice. did you ever think of that? you can't be judgmental and compare your life to others. it may be easy for you to run to your mom for everything but its not easy for other girls. show respect and help them out cause girls turn to us (beautylish) to find and ask for advice because maybe people in her life won't. and if you see someone ask a question that has already been answered then they probably just didn't see it or didn't understand! is it going to kill you to answer again? and I didn't say comment on every post... I was telling Dana that if she DOES say no to an outfit choice, or a makeup choice, or any choice that someone posted then don't say no. say no and put something in there that will actually BENEFIT them and help them further in what they are trying to accomplish. are you going to tell a baby no no no? no, you're going to TEACH (keyword: teach) them right from wrong. its called HELPING. I'm sure you would want someone to help you...

Jun 10, 2013

Roz X.

Thank you, Ashley. I have seen so many ladies here go into painstaking details, post photos, give amazing recommendations and vital medical information...fashion tips...you name it and then in a few days *poof* it's vanished from the popular page and without a search, it's buried and wasted. I honestly do believe it would spare a lot of feelings and then, if an issue is something is of a personal nature, create a thread and I'll be delighted to help! There was a lovely lady that created a thread on how to achieve a perfect tan..pictures, products, amazing results. I cannot recall her name at the moment (without a search..lol), but that was days ago. Why should it be forgotten? Why would anyone be upset by the suggestion that it be sought out with a search? They shouldn't. I enjoy helping people who have made an effort to help themselves (if able) and then seek further knowledge or need a more personal approach. Don't get me wrong, I enjoy the haircut and outfit pics...make up looks of the day and such, but I can't respond to every thread when I'm busy living my life and am here for short spurts here and there. I don't like this ganging up on people who have disagreed with this suggestion either.

Jun 10, 2013

Roz X.

Amaris, spare me your lecture. I clearly stated "if you're lucky enough to have one there for you." You found some little comment that irked you and focused on that rather than on my excellent suggestions. You cannot even acknowledge that a search is a great idea...lolz Additionally, I did not judge anyone in this thread and oftentimes, when my opinion is asked, someone is requesting a judgment so again, your point is moot. I have been sincere in all of my efforts to help members here and will continue to do so and not you or anyone else will decide for me how many times I should answer a question before I have tired of doing so.