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Jan 30, 2013

Lyric F.

My mom is really getting on my nerves lately. For her, every little thing has to be perfect. I get really hurt when she says I have to be like my younger bro or my cuz or my sis. She's always comparing me to every one else. I don't know what to do. Help!

Jan 30, 2013

Jamie B.

Ignore it, soon enough shell have to accept you!

Jan 30, 2013

leslie a.

me too!! just ignore it thats wat i do..not really good option but hey it works

Jan 30, 2013

Catherine W.

I hope you can sort this out, but it really doesn't belong on a beauty app.

Jan 30, 2013

Emma C.

Try to talk to her about it I used to have trouble but I told my mom about it and for some reason that made us so much closer. 

Jan 30, 2013

Rola H.

tell her that shes hurting you, shes ur mon shel feel you.

Jan 30, 2013

Bianca O.

Talk to her tell her how you feel. And speak calmly don't start yelling cuz then it just turns into something bigger

Jan 30, 2013

Ave M.

Get used to it. My mom is the same way. I'm 21 and she still acts like that. Despite numerous conversations about it.

Jan 30, 2013

Ave M.

Just be thankful you don't have to live with them forever and you will have your own life and own problems soon enough. As soon as I moved out at 18 my stress has become almost non existent. And I have 2 kids and tons of responsiblity.

Jan 30, 2013

Dani C.

Don't Adapt to who she wants you to be. Find out who YOU are, and be the best that you can be. I think as long as your happy, your mom should be happy too.

Jan 30, 2013

Ema D.

Mom may not realize that she compares you to everyone instead of accepting your uniqueness. I wonder how she would feel if you started comparing her to her own sister, brother, cousins, friends etc. Hmmmm. So tastefully to her that you feel that she does this and how would she feel if you compared her to all her peers.

Jan 30, 2013

Ema D.

Mom may not realize that she compares you to everyone instead of accepting your uniqueness. I wonder how she would feel if you started comparing her to her own sister, brother, cousins, friends etc. Hmmmm. So tastefully to her that you feel that she does this and how would she feel if you compared her to all her peers.

Jan 30, 2013

Lyric F.

Thx for the great advice!

Jan 30, 2013

Melanie B.

As a mum, it's hard to get the balance right. You want to help your children be the best that they can be, always aspire to more? I know I tell my daughter (she's a grown up 11), that so and so does this or that, I don't necessarily want her to be that way, I'm just sharing with her. I would hate to ever hurt my baby girl, she means the world to me. I'm sure if you pick a time when things are calm, explain to your mum that she is hurting you, without blaming her, I'm sure she'll apologise and see her error. Mums want their little girls to be as amazing as we know you can be, but we are human and don't always go the right way about it:-(

Jan 31, 2013

Zeroya A.

be nice to her and listen to her..what she says is best for u

Jan 31, 2013

Aimee W.

This is a beauty ap... Not really the best thing to right this kind of stuff on...

Jan 31, 2013

Jessica L.

Ignore them they are just loving you and want what is best for you. just tell them that you are your own person and personality 

Feb 2, 2013

Jana H.

I go tthrough it all the time girly it's frustrating,annoying and it makes me upset that she can't just see that imma be this wy regardless if she try to change me im 17 about to be out the house and she trying to still supposeply make me a better person. I am a good person im veryh sociable,funny,enegetic and all that but Dont let you mom get you down it just might be her own insecurities

Feb 2, 2013

Mabe R.

Sometimes my mom is like yours and what I do is just mind my own business and not let her ruin my day

Feb 2, 2013

Monica R.

I have the exact same thing. At first I ignored it but then I got sick of it so I talked to her and worked it out she still does it sometime but I ignore it

Jul 2, 2013

Kayde L.

Omg I am in the same position it's really sad and hurtful :( all I do is ignore it and hope that it goes away soon :(