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Feb 6, 2014

Reagan W.

^^

Feb 6, 2014

Shannon B.

I'm not able to read it since I'm on the app.

Feb 6, 2014

Reagan W.

I'm sorry. hold on...

Feb 6, 2014

Nicolet K.

Mayb she has personal issues she's going thru.

Feb 6, 2014

Nicolet K.

And if she's your bf how can she all of a sudden not like you I think what you need to do is have a heart to heart conversation with her to see if there is jealousy brewing and just find out why shes made mainly with you. hope that helped feel better :)

Feb 6, 2014

Reagan W.

Well even if Shes mad she will tell the other friend eveything and she always tells me everthing so it kinda sucks.

Feb 6, 2014

Reagan W.

And I've tried but she just yells and I make it worse (the whole hate thing happened in 30 min):/

Feb 6, 2014

Nicolet K.

Yea. But really have a talk with her and if she is against you then she wasnt a tru friend.

Feb 6, 2014

Nicolet K.

Then she isnt really your friend coz y would she yell at you ig your trying to make things beta.

Feb 6, 2014

Lauren L.

Well did you do anything that could have possibly hurt/angered her? If you had a conversation with her about how your relationship changed and she got mad, did she get mad at the suggestion that she was acting differently? Maybe you should avoid her for a little bit. Or have another talk and don't back down and make her understand how you feel. Don't let her brush you off. If she's being really mean I would avoid her if she cares she'll go after you and ask you but if she avoids you too then you've got a problem. I'm not sure how to solve this but she's your bf did you ever have any problems before?

Feb 6, 2014

Nicolet K.

And when or if you do hwve a talk shiw her that your the bigger person don't let her walk all over you. Also reflect back to see if you might have done anything bad that might have pissd her off. Ex: date her crush, steal her boyfriend or ex...

Feb 6, 2014

Lauren L.

Maybe ask your other friend too.

Feb 6, 2014

Reagan W.

I dated her ex from the 4th grade (Ik...) but it was last week and for like 30 min. but he was strange... but I Don't see how that would piss her off. I havnt done anything other than that.
our convo today (the other gfriends name is mia btw)
me: wow lol kinda shocking your brother did an amazing job at that presentation! lol no jk but he did really good
her: Thats so rude. y would you say somthing like that!?!?
me: sorry...
mia: lol look at that little kid he looks so stupid like that
her:bwahahahahahahahhaah
me:ha. Thats bad but kinda funny...
her:eeh. idc
me:ill go sit over here...

Feb 6, 2014

Reagan W.

I have weve been texting all night.

Feb 6, 2014

Lauren L.

Maybe she wants to lose you as a friend I don't want to speculate you are there I'm not. but if she's shutting you down as making you feel bad then that's not best friend-like. I would really stick with some other friends for a couple days.

Feb 6, 2014

Lauren L.

Just stay kind of disconnected I did that when my bf was being kind of mean and making fun of me and eventually she realized she was being mean and stuff and she stopped. I'm not sure if you meant you were texting the best friend or your other bf. I would really confide in another friend about this.

Feb 6, 2014

Reagan W.

Thanks its kinda weird tho because she loves mia so she always is with her so can't really hang with them and there is only one other friend and its just wired. my schools is really small and everyone is kinda in a group of like 4 but once you get pushes out of one it just makes it hard to make friends that you hang out with. I have a lot of friends but its awkward hanging out with them.if this makes sense..

Feb 6, 2014

Lauren L.

Oh I see I know what you mean I used to go to a small school too...I'm not sure what to do...become better friends with one of your not so 'best' friends?

Feb 6, 2014

Mary P.

I'm going through the same thing! My best friend is hanging out with one of my previous best friends who is really mean! She doesn't see that though! She is ignoring me and it's terrible! I tried to warn her about her but she didn't believe me. Any tips? Good luck Reagan we will get through this together! Lol.