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Jul 1, 2013
Leanne D.
I get that but there are people saying its annoying when they post is my eyeliner okay and could I be a model people need to hear the good and the bad not just people saying they should stop posting these topics it really makes me mad that people don't respect that just because your pretty doesn't mean you know it and are cocky about it like come on with the stereo types not all people are fishing for compliments when they post something like that now thanks to this post people are not going to post them as much
Jul 1, 2013
Lily M.
People still should post them if they're saying it like is this makeup nice or is this outfit nice I think thats fine! I do it we all do it! and could I be a model I think thats fine also because you generally need an idea of if they could achieve it or not.
Jul 1, 2013
Lily M.
I firmly believe everyone is beautiful and they don't need to be reassured! they need to beileve it themselves and I'm not saying its easy x
Jul 1, 2013
Leanne D.
Exactly lily that my point x
Jul 1, 2013
Dorothea S.
Leanne I understand what you're saying but it's like what Lily said. I mean what's it matter what 200 People think whether they think you can do this or you are pretty or whatever, cause ultimately if YOU (general population) don't feel that way about yourself, then when it boils down to it, it won't really matter what people say because you don't feel confident about yourself. You shouldn't have to need people to be confident for you.
Jul 1, 2013
Leanne D.
And yeh they need to believe it them selves but its nice to hear what others have to say x x if there going to pursue a career in makeup/beauty/hair/model or whatever they need I want to know if there good enough and why style people likes x
Jul 1, 2013
Leanne D.
Ye Dorothea but isn't it nice to give a compliment and isn't it now to get a compliment that's what I love about this website x
Jul 1, 2013
Rachel H.
Annoyed wouldn't be the word for me, but the ones with like serious decisions just kind of make me sad to be honest. Hair, makeup, is one thing. When I see something that's like, surgical, or another serious topic like that its kind of depressing. As much as I love the information I get from here...I ain't askin any of y'all if I should get lypo or something
Jul 1, 2013
Lily M.
The point of it 'annoying' me is that I hate when people think they're ugly and I want them to feel the best about themselves but they need to go out there and search for that beauty that we all have in us :) x
Jul 1, 2013
Leanne D.
I guess people new to hear some Criticism to make that better and work o it so I Made a topic give 1 compliment and one dislike :) sorry I I came across mean or anything
Jul 1, 2013
Lily M.
Like I said I like giving compliments:) I like making peoples days better and I like getting honest and genuine opions on my ootds amd motds xo.
Jul 1, 2013
Anupa M.
Thankyouthankyouthankyou for this. I think compliment fishing makes people unattractive by nature. its much worse when they argue "I'm ugly" "you're pretty!" "no I'm not but thanks anyway" ugh. makes me wanna rip my hair out. thanks for letting me rant ;P.
Jul 2, 2013
Lily M.
You are truly welcome we all have our veiws that should be respected I think its the most attractive thing when someone is confident and can take a compliment shows a happy confident person!
Jul 2, 2013
Brooke L.
YES. My sister does it. "Does my hair look okay.?" "Do you think my makeup is fine.??" Constant nagging. Smh.
Jul 2, 2013
Kaley K.
Yah but some people are really just looking for tips but they just title it annoyingly. But yah sometimes its annoying.
Jul 2, 2013
Lily M.
Yes correct phrasing would probably help!
Jul 2, 2013
Iizabella M.
Haha I tell people if they look bad.
Jul 2, 2013
Emma T.
Agree 100% with Cassandra. Generally complete strangers won't tell you you're ugly.
Jul 2, 2013
Stephy V.
There is a difference between asking for constructive criticism/opinions and fishing for compliments. Just saying.
Jul 2, 2013
Dana M.
Exactly Em! & Lily, preaaaach haha.
Jul 2, 2013
Faith E.
Sometimes yes and sometimes no if someone posts "I wish I was pretty" that bugs me because they know they are and they want to be complimented but it is ok if you ask if its your first time doing makeup and you need an confidence boost.
Jul 2, 2013
Isabelle S.
I literally hate it. If they're super annoying, I'll just agree with them.
"Ugh, I'm so fat."
"Yeah, you're obese…"
They usually get that they're not, and that I know what they're trying to do hehe
Jul 2, 2013
Kaitlin K.
I was annoyed at first, but then I thought about it. Like maybe they don't get told they're pretty, or get any attention at all. Ya'know? So I see where you all are coming from, but just don't judge unless you know the whole story I guess :) and sometimes people just want opinions. Sometimes I want to wear something but I'm not sure if it looks put together or not. So I'll ask.
Jul 2, 2013
Jazzmyn R.
@Leanne, you should put periods. It was so hard to read what you had to say.
But YES! I get so annoyed. I didn't care so much at first but I see it all the time and it gets really old.
Jul 2, 2013
Sarah J.
It's really annoying. everyone gets told they look beautiful/stylish/fabulous etc.when they don't. what's the point of asking an opinion if all they want is compliments? lame.