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May 18, 2013
Niayla S.
So I have 3 kids a 3 yr a 1 yr and a 1 month old and I feel so outta touch with my inner self my body has changed and I've lost all confidence I don't know what to do with myself any suggestions.
May 18, 2013
Tiffany D.
I don't have kids yet but I hope to soon the only thing I can think of to tell you is maybe take some time if you can to just pamper yourself :)
May 18, 2013
Niayla S.
Thank you tiffany I would like to try that some day.
May 18, 2013
Becca L.
I don't have any either, but try taking the kids to the park and stay active, hold the one month old a lot while you do things, that small amount of weight you carry around can help tone your body. Take a bubble bath, put on at least a little bit of makeup daily, eat fresh foods, wear something other than sweatpants and sneakers. Little things like that could boost your self esteem :)
May 18, 2013
Tiffany D.
I hope you get time to do that I really want a baby in the next year but I don't want to completely lose myself.
May 18, 2013
Tiffany D.
And I agree with becca stay active!
May 18, 2013
Becca L.
Try yoga or meditation, go swimming, call up a babysitter and go out for dinner and drinks with some friends, get a mani/pedi, get a new hair style, save up for something you've been wanting!
May 18, 2013
Christina D.
Girl, I know exactly What you are saying. I've had three kids but also have two step kids and I'm a wreck no doubt! And when I do have time to myself, I want to sleep!! :) I try and do some work outs as much as I can and eat as healthy I can with the amount of income we have but it is hard. I'm always in pajamas and mostly looking a reck but lately I have been waking up a lot earlier and having some me time. I do my excersizes, eat breakfast, shower and do my makeup and hair..and throw something nice on...not everyday but when I can. Also, if you have a boyfriend..husband..or any Support system than ask for help and get atleast an hour or two for yourself! And if money is an issue to pamper yourself a little, try getting a groupon and living social! They have great deals on everything!..spas..makeup...nail salons..hair salons..and try saving for that..thats What I do when I can. Hopefully I gave some good advice,?
May 18, 2013
Niayla S.
Dang Christina D you just gave me great advice thanks and I'm glad to.hear your able to pull it off
May 18, 2013
Niayla S.
May 18, 2013
Tiffany D.
I hope I can pull it off that's been one of the reasons I've been putting motherhood off is because everyone keeps drilling it into my head "your never going to have time for yourself".
May 18, 2013
Niayla S.
I don't have this hair color any more its black and dark brown and this was before I had my one month old
May 18, 2013
Niayla S.
Yeah my advice to you is pace your self because having kids especially unexpectedly can cause some problems but they still are amazing and a blessing
May 18, 2013
Tiffany D.
Thanx Niayla I don't know if I gave you any good advice but thank you for yours It's something I've been thinking long and hard about even though both my fiancé and I have agreed we want kids he already has some and is quick to warn me it's going to change everything but its something I definitely want good luck to you :)
May 18, 2013
Niayla S.
And good luck to you I must say you should definitely wait til you guys are married to start letting things change cause babies can do that but best wishes
May 18, 2013
Tiffany D.
Yeah we're getting married in October it's definitely going to be after that thank you!
May 18, 2013
Niayla S.
aw Congrats
May 18, 2013
Stephanie R.
I felt like that a little after having my daughter, I had absolutely no time to go to the gym so my husband bought me a Wii with a couple of sunny n dance games and they help me keeps in shape right in my living room! Also eating healthier makes a difference, and if you had some skin discouragement (stretch marks) Palmers forming butter with Q10 is a life saver!
May 18, 2013
Stephanie R.
*firming
May 18, 2013
Stephanie R.
*zumba...darn autocorrect
May 18, 2013
Roz X.
Yoga. Heals the body and eases the mind. Calming and restorative. It can change your life. :)
May 18, 2013
Christina T.
Niayla, you are beautiful.
I know how it is to lose yourself. I'm dealing with it right now. My daughter is two and between her, my niece, and my husband I don't know who I am. I've been trying to become more active, but it seems as if there's not enough hours in the day.
I like to take my daughter to the park or just walk around with her. My happy place is playing in make-up. I also do a lot of reading.
May 18, 2013
Cheeks D.
I felt like this after I had my daughter. Honest best remedy is time. Do activities w. your kids to where your able to stay fit & kids busy & happy. Self confidence is something that doesn't develop over night. But w. the right attitude , support & just a willing nature to build yourself up. It will come :)
May 18, 2013
Fayth E.
Sometimes you have to force yourself to apply yourself. I'm a new mommy and my son is 8 months and I'm just as tired as when he first came home. Take a day in the week where you have to do your hair and makeup, snap some photos. Then when you feel like crap look at your photos of how good you were looking on that day you applied yourself!
May 18, 2013
Maddy R.
I know exactly how you feel! What I do sometimes ill just go and get my hair done makes me feel much better also eating healthy and doing some exercise is great :) but trust me I know EXACTLY how you feel! And I'm pregnant