Idk What To Do Need Some Girl Advice..
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Jan 8, 2013
Elizabeth G.
Guys want what they can't have, he found out you were happy and it makes him uncomfortable, it's a common fact!
Jan 8, 2013
Bree T.
Honestly, I am on the same page with you. That is your ex and he shouldn't be trying to visit or see any part of your family in my opinion he has his own life with his new girl and their future child that should be his focus and not your sister or best friend. This guy is just trying to easy into the picture to see what everyone is doing especially you since you're married now. That is just plain weird!!! 😣😠 it's disrespectful to me and its disrespect towards the girl he is currently with as well.
Jan 8, 2013
Vaishnavi T.
I would say tell ur sister the truth why u broke up with him.... He has no rights to come back into ur life again . If he still does that directly warn him .
Jan 8, 2013
Jean K.
Exactly but I don't think my sis understands considering she married the only man she's ever been with, I don't think she understands the ex boyfriend concept and its not ok for them to come over like every thing is ok grrrrrrrr...
Jan 8, 2013
Jean K.
Bree ur soo right. I haven't spoken to him in a very long time so for Him to jump into the picture again is weird to me. And his baby mama sent me a request not too long ago on Instagram... Idk if they got into a fight or broke up and that's why he's trying to come back into the picture... I just want him to move on cuz he's causing drama that doesn't need to happen. And vaishnavi, I tried to tell her how I felt but I don't think she understood why it bothered me so much. I'm going to try and talk to her tomorrow and if she is not understanding I'm just going to message him and tell him he needs to fall back
Jan 8, 2013
Bree T.
That's good Jean it's also weird that she's sending you a request as well I can just smell drama. But handle it the appropriate way, sometimes you just have to be straight forward with people so they can get the picture.
Jan 8, 2013
Amanda R.
I very recently had an ex pop up into my life. I decided not to deal with any of it because I've moved on and am happy now. Nobody likes ghosts from the past and you shouldn't have to worry about him. Just ignore him.
Jan 8, 2013
Alisa D.
maybe I'm not following what you are getting at but.. why on earth is it not ok for someone to make contact with your sister?? how does this have any impact on your world? if you are happy and secure in your life and marriage why world toy even give this character a second thought? and don't is it that toy been the need to fire or dictate who your friends and family socialize with? out sends like perhaps your trying to make something about you... and inn not saying this to be mean but so that toy look at it from a perspective outside your on. if my starter vane to Mr and said it makes me uncomfortable that your socializing with X, i'd be like...seriously?! Move on if your so moved on from this person....
Jan 8, 2013
Alisa D.
wow, epic fail lol thanks auto correct..
Jan 8, 2013
Amanda R.
I think it's m
Jan 8, 2013
Amanda R.
*more about the fact that he is trying to come over and actually see everyone
Jan 8, 2013
Jean K.
To me I just feel like its a lack of respect, I'm not going to go over to his families house and hang out because he is in a relationship and has a baby with her. I know I wouldn't like it at all if my husbands ex fiancé was still going over to his families house. Idc if she wants to talk to him, but if he wanted to be around that bad he should have thought twice about it before we broke up. I agree Amanda no one likes ghosts from there pasts popping in to say hello... It's just awkward Telling my husband " hey my ex fiancé is over at my sisters house visiting my family" lol it's just weird
Jan 8, 2013
Caitlin Lee G.
Agreed! It's Just Weird, It's Like 'Leave Me And My Family Alone; You Have Your Own To F*** Up' And I'm Sorry This Is Happening :/
Jan 8, 2013
Jean K.
yea, it only bothers me so much because I know it bothers my husband and i cant imagine how he must feel. but im gonna delete this post because I dont want to babble about boy issues on here its just nice to get a girls point of view on the topic, thanks everyone for your input!! :]]