A bit sad, need something to talk about :/

Feb 5, 2013

Maria H.

Husband is being a bit selfish and inconsiderate...and a huge jerk.
Just need some girl power!

Feb 5, 2013

Devan V.

I have the same problem. I just started a thread 'what are you stressed about' mine was about my boyfriend, go vent and we will gossip about what jerks they are. :)

Feb 5, 2013

Lehi I.

I know I'm a little bit to young to answer this question but I just love helping people.You should just ignore him for a bit , do the same and be a huge jerk to him!Show him how you feel like!or you could just ask him to sit down with you and talk about how you feel. :) ~good luck!

Feb 5, 2013

Perla G.

Ugh my bf is being like that too! Hate it

Feb 5, 2013

Pamela F.

have a bath,face mask etc and paint ur nails....while bitching away in ur head.works wonders for me :)

Feb 5, 2013

Zuby P.

@mariah
wat exactly happened and clear out why is he doing this make him realise that ur his wife his life partner not a girl from the roadside and need to spent ur whole life so this attitude of yours will kill me each day and tel him...wats ur problem
try to find out is he in trouble or some kind of tensions of his behaviour towards you

Feb 5, 2013

Zuby P.

coz ur a married woman and to build up strong bondage u need to get more closer to each others heart...not good taking any wrong decission...all i can suggest u as a sister rite now...

Feb 5, 2013

Maria H.

Aww, thank you, everyone! You're all so very kind :)
I guess it just became so difficult. I'm from America, he's from England. Things were rough in America, but we were getting through it and we have a cute little puppy as well.
We came to visit his family...and now he refuses to leave his country at all. I know he cares about me, but I just think this could have been done a much better way. I didn't say goodbye to my family properly and he doesn't care. He thinks "I'm crying too much" and he can't handle me being sad so he sometimes doesn't want to hug me or comfort me :'(
And now he said he "needed space" and it going to jam with his friend and play guitar for 5 hours. I'm home completely alone and very lonely. He didn't even think of that :/

Feb 5, 2013

Stormy M.

Maybe he just realizes how homesick he is and is sad or frustrated cause he knows that he can't keep you there forever. . .maybe he's battling himself between you and his home

Feb 5, 2013

Maria H.

Men are complicated, aren't they :/?

Yeah, Stormy I think so too. The horrible thing is that now he's pretty much found a job, and telling me that I have to chose either my family or him.
Seriously, the nerve, lol.

Feb 5, 2013

Zuby P.

oh mariah ...remember "Men will be men".
and they r always our attention seekers...so chill down
never end up crying too much as you will make him habituated to the same and he will juz leave u crying...thats womans weak point...Be bold enough to talk wat u want from him on a serious topic of life and both of u can settle down later...as of now indulgde urself into something very interesting which can win ur heart...be a good planner.hes on for his job wic is good and ur family u can meet them if no restrictions i think...as my philosophy on life living in india "once a girl gets married she is all to her husband & husband her family".
thanx.

Feb 5, 2013

Laurie F.

Don't give up family. No honorable man would ask you to do that.

Feb 6, 2013

Stormy M.

Maria, men are so completed and have the nerve to complain about us! Ha ah ha Have you tried to talk to him? Don't show him how sad you feel. . .if you choose your family he'll feel threatened and you'll be in control, the only reason he asked you to choose is because he feels he has the control over you and the situation. . .let him know you have control too

Feb 6, 2013

Maria H.

@Zuby You are definitely right, I'm going to cry less. To be honest? Now I'm not even too sad...it's more that I am angry. It's difficult to be with someone thy clearly loves himself more :/
Yeah I just sort of want to travel my own country first as well before moving 3,000 miles away from it, lol. Thank you so much for the advice!

Feb 6, 2013

Maria H.

@Laurie Well said, I read that this morning and it definitely made me think.

Feb 6, 2013

Maria H.

@Stormy Haha, tell me about. They think we're complicated? Definitely not as much as them!
But you're completely right, I need to show the woman power in me, because one thing is for sure...I am not someone you can put a leash on and I'll happily follow. Sorry, mate, this isn't the 1800's!

Feb 7, 2013

Gina G.

I ignore my bf till he's over his stuff... When he's done we try and talk abt it...

Feb 7, 2013

Allie R.

Honey if he won't leave, take his credit card and go shopping in London. 

Feb 8, 2013

Chantal D.

Hey I just want to recommend something to you it sounds Aquisse taking a bunch of you. I'm not saying that he doesn't love you but men have a tendency to do that. Especially when we give up things for them or are are really in love. We can to lose some self-respect and just do whatever they want. Sounds like he has Mosholder respect for you and he doesn't care that this situation is hurting you. I think you need to show him that you will not stand for this. Need to make a bold action and not being needy. If you go back to America and tell him that you need to be with your family. He really loves you so she will realize that this is important to you

Feb 8, 2013

Chantal D.

Sorry I meant to say taking advantage of you

Feb 8, 2013

Stormy M.

Maria ha ah ha you are rite! Be the strong woman you are! (: